The first step to recovery is that you admit you have a problem. Right? Do YOU have a money problem? You may not have one or might not THINK you have a money problem but the numbers don’t lie. I don’t know where to begin, pick a number, any number: 31% have NOT saved for retirement, average household has $8k credit card debt, 43% of families spend more than they make, by most accounts, 70% of American’s live like the top 1%. So odds are that at least one of those really nice cars I saw on the road today must belong to one of our statistics, right? Was it you? Do you really know enough your financial situation to answer that question correctly?
The first step is to clearly define your own reality.
We can assume that there are plenty of those high priced problems out there but that’s not what I’m concerned with. I’m concerned with the middle class bump, like mine, where we’ve taken that reality check and fully understand and accept that action must be taken. But what action?? I’ve never been here before. We need to look around every corner, look at every label, and check that ego (we all have one!) at the door while we take personal inventory to define what we can and cannot, or will not, live without. We all have our personal comfort zones, which should be tested but we do have our limits… I will tell you right now, I am not yet at the point where I will make my own toothpaste. You? But I am crazy with the coupons, that’s a project I can manage. It fits who I am. There are so many ideas and suggestions out there for saving/managing our money, we can’t possibly do them all.
Look at everything and identify what it is you must and are willing/able to change.
Take ownership of our situation. Money has always been one of those taboo subjects in our society and that has literally cost us. We’re getting better but still have a long way to go. We need to take a step to look closely at what comes in and what goes out, cash flow (do you know your number?), only then can we accurately asses what type of action should be taken. Open up the books!!
YOU must own it and take action.
We should all be so lucky to have high caring and high quality financial advice and coaching. Tough to come by. My Dad was high on the caring but lower on the quality than I would have liked but my financial advisor right now has decent quality but really couldn’t care less, let’s face it, he’s invested in me for the commission. Trade, baby, trade!
I’ve got to do this on my own. I’m doing it and I love to coach…
My sister and her husband got married, had a beautiful son, and bought a house recently. Once we got past the akward, “are you sure you’re comfortable with me getting involved with your money?” out of the way, the high quality (relatively) financial & some DailySaving, advice and coaching took flight and that is why I’m here. With them my focus is sustainability. If they, or our nation goes back to old habits, we’re in big trouble.
I love this stuff and I want to help.
I have 20 sales, leadership, and C.O.O. experience, my wife is the brains of this operation, she’s putting her PhD to work for the cause she loves, our schools. I’m home now with the kids and I love it. I have put my experience and expertise towards managing and leading (sort of) the household. I have found that one of the things that worked for me throughout my career was my knack to Simplify.
Simplify to achieve goals at home. One of my main goals is DailySaving.